Doug .. sometimes I feel like you're living under a rock!
What's that bulls-shirt (yes, basketball.. red, not orange)??
This is EXACTLY the same like saying blacks are not allowed in the bus..
Marriage is NOT a sacred thing, it simply isn't since if it was it would be impossible to be divorced, and you my friend are not against divortion, are you?
And do not bring up the bible.. do not even get me started!
That book is full of allegories, that you can interpret in BOTH ways..
But since you did.. the ONE person that in
my religion is -by gods will- allowed to make the christian rules is the pope!
And here's what he said when he was asked about if being gay was wrong:
"Well, if god didn't wanted people to be gay, he wouldn't make that many of them"
And AFAIK he blessed many gay couples in his time as a priest...
(and now opened the debate to allow christian marriage for gay couples)
Your sexual preference is hardcoded to your brain tissue
(and with hardcoded I mean by birth, it's not something you learn.. it's literally the amount of braintissue in your 'sex'-region)
you can't willingly change that..
You can ignore your tendency, of course..
you can choose to not follow that tendency (well most of it.. you can't stop yourself from falling in love though)
Anyways.. it's basically the same as being left handed...
you can ignore that urge to use the left hand and it was 'illegal' to use the left hand at one point in time as well. kids have been beaten to write with the right hand.
And that too was a "the bible says it's bad" reasoning.
WHY??
Because some brickhead has the right to decide what feelings you have, that your brain has evolved the wrong way and you're lesser than him?
Know what?
Personally I think that half of the homophobes out there are just gays afraid of their very own feelings!
Love and hate are triggered in exactly the same brain region, by very similar hormones...
just saying.
Now.. legal rights...
finally something we agree upon, Society makes the rules (at least hopefully)
and if soviety agrees upon something being "legally allowed" then it is.
15 y.o. marriage was legal for centuries... because people didn't have much chance to get older than 40 so society decided a 15y.o. is grown up enough..
Puberty hit, a.k.a GOD decided that it's time to replicate, thus 15yo should have sex (and that meant marriage back then)
Well, society agreed upon changing that over the time, so it was shifted from "puberty hit" to "puberty is over" and that generally is between the age of 18 and 21 (notice something?)
Society can change the rules.. and gay people are part of that very same society,
so they do as they should.. they ask over and over again to have other people agree upon their request.
And what they ask is nothing really.. a piece of paper not even worth the ink it soaked up in a few years from now..
So why bother fighting against it?
You felt like a better man when you were married?
Was marriage something
sacred, something extraordinary special for you?
I have an opinion on that too

Men and women are NOT equal.. they're not (luckily I should add

)
but unfortunately they do not even talk the same language sometimes...
I do not understand my wife every once so often, and I'm sure she feels the same way about me.
And from what my friends say.. it's exactly the same with their beloved wifes as well.
Now, I do not feel the same about my friends, when they say something, I know EXACTLY what's meant, I don't need to go fishing for subtext or subliminal messages...
A gay couple does not have to face that problem.. and I think (I can't tell for obvious reasons) they have a better chance of not being divorced because of "miscommunication" after the first few years.
marriage sacred thing.. I can't believe you said that sitting in a country where I can marry a hooker pi55drunk in las vegas in an instant....
because it's legal...
GOOD LORD!
'sid