Any local automotive store. There's the 2 types of paste (Coarse and fine), and the water soulable one (the more water you add, the "finer" it becomes).
And two sticks with suction cups on both ends. Clean off ALL of it, as lapping compound will eat your engine alive...
A few scratches is all right. However, if theres a million or so and you can feel them all with a fingernail, you got problems. As long as your rings are the rightside up, you should be fine though.
It's the first 2 digits of the last set of numbers.
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