If you have a free run of the welder, can you not ask to take it home to work on it?
It was probably just that store. I have heard the cheap welder at Harbor Freight is a good beginner machine. Why is your mom against you learning? As long as you are wearing the correct safety equipment, doing it in a safe place, and being careful
(not stupid) it is relatively safe. I was taught to weld a few weeks ago, he showed me how to do it (maybe a minute or two of instruction) and then said, "your turn." and walked to the other side of the shop. I picked it up pretty quick. Obviously not a master yet...