I can just make a guess..
but from what your exlaining.. it's neither the clutch nor the engine, it's you!
No, honestly;
when installing the clutch you "do something" you're not telling...
and THAT's what makes your engine revving to the moon...
if the engine runs and idles fine w/o the clutch, it will do exactly that with a clutch.
so you're either relocating the throttle cable (pulling WOT) or doing something else that makes the engine rev up.
So

I'm afraid
'sid