what upset me today (very off topic)

[oscaryu1]

Odd. Never had these problems and I was a skinny azn boi freshmen year. But we grew up in different societies.

Just go talk to her in person. She gets pissy, you don't. Act mature and walk away. If she still pursues you, find out her parents and talk to them. Always carry around a camcorder or voice recorder as evidence (winning.) - use the texts as evidence of your attempts of reconciliation and her ignorance lol.

"Stage 2" - Parents don't do anything, and she continues to harass you, file charges for harassment and assault. Assault charges doesn't actually include physical contact, but fear of it. If anyone puts a hand on you, file battery charges.

Obviously, "stage 2" is last choice. You'll have a hell of a time in court proving yourself against a lot of people who'll stand next to each other, but the threat of such charges may prevail in situations like this.

Also, if the school doesn't give a **** about it, and this problem keeps developing, start collecting evidence to sue the school for endangerment and "reckless disregard" for safety. You got a thousand ways out.

Off topic - Goodness, I have to say, there is a huge difference in schools with above-middle class families.

 

[B man]

call your school board and get the principle fired.

 

[kendelrk]

the princple is just a flat out *****, and so is my counsler. im the little skinny freshman boy thats cool with all the junior/seniors. not anyone else. and sadley its not the texts, its facebook, and even if you show them direct evidence, it still comes out as not possible because it was on facebook, and i could go to court right now and have the school shut down on what ive collected already and what happened last week, when they decided to drug test me because they thought i was selling crack, which i in no way have any afiliation with, im near no kind of drug which has been messing with my mine and then the school decided they were going to act like they didnt know what i mean, and yeah there definetley is,

 

[dave1701]

Try doing nothing. Always got me out of things. Sometimes...

 

[Sentrek]

I think her Facebook postings are all the proof he needs. If it were me I'd ignore her and go about my business. She sounds like a dueshe bag that ain't worth worrying about.

 

[kendelrk]

thats what im planning, leave it alone till further notice, and i dont think shes worth a dime honestly, also any guys on here do a robotics program through school?

 

[B man]

haha honestly my schools to poor for robotics.

 

[kendelrk]

my school has a completely funded robotics program

 

[oscaryu1]

and sadley its not the texts, its facebook, and even if you show them direct evidence, it still comes out as not possible because it was on facebook,

LOL who the hell told you that? Evidence is evidence, regardless. If you have to put up with her BS accusations and you've already done all you can (actually ATTEMPTED it, not just assume your principal won't don't jack), then start filin'.

 

[kendelrk]

**** has started like this, the school board will except no evidence from facebook or any other social site

 

[fowler]

u will be suprised what some idiots will say over text or facebook just to make them selves look cool

haveing them say it to your face or haveing them follow though with there actions is all too hard as it acctually carries consiquenses

 

[hacksign23]

What you should do is when you go to school,

find her and confront the **** out of her. I'm not saying like "hey... sorry..." or whatever. I mean
"HEY WHAT'S THIS **** YOU'VE BEEN SAYING ABOUT ME?"
and then continue on about how you don't even know her. And if someone trys to jump you, just face him and yell "WHAT BIG BOY WHAT."

lmao ****ing 14 year olds. They'll definitely step down.

 

[fowler]

What you should do is when you go to school,

find her and confront the **** out of her. I'm not saying like "hey... sorry..." or whatever. I mean
"HEY WHAT'S THIS **** YOU'VE BEEN SAYING ABOUT ME?"
and then continue on about how you don't even know her. And if someone trys to jump you, just face him and yell "WHAT BIG BOY WHAT."

lmao ****ing 14 year olds. They'll definitely step down.

really bad idea
this is exactly what she wnats
if u encourage her freinds u will get in a fight and u will get in trouble

 

[buckeye]

Go about your business and be prepared to defend yourself. If a attact actually happens, file charges. Are your parents aware of the situation? Keep accurate records of all threats. Don't even respond to her child like behavior. Block her and all of her freinds on FB. You and your parents attend a meeting with the principal as well as the police. Be ready to knock out the biggest baddest friend she has if you are attacted. Act crazy as hell. Most things like this pass in time. There are laws to protect you. If there actually a attack a well placed kick to the nuts will get the douche bags attention. I hate you have to be concerned for your safety in school. Get some adults involved. And always try to have a buddy or two around.

 

[syko120]

Ok i had something similar like this to me during my freshman year... All in all bro tell her straight up that you didnt say ****, and if some kids come at you take'm down you cant really get in trouble if you call it self defense and save those messages they'll be useful in case cops are called.

that was solution A. Now solution B. Which I prefer includes a bat and a pair of steel toe boots kick everyones ***. If anything fly me out there ill do it for u. i hate when they pick on the quiet kids

 

[kendelrk]

i dont weat steel toe boots, to easy for people to see, i have steal too dress shoes, and i just hope everything is just whatever, i dont need any **** happening any more

 

[oscaryu1]

**** has started like this, the school board will except no evidence from facebook or any other social site

Who gives a **** about the school board? Go straight to court. The school board is trying to save their own ***, why would they try to help you?

 

[j.concepcion54321]

Something similar happened to me in middle school. Some girl accused me of staring at her *** ( which I did, everyone does) and that her boyfriend was gonna fight me. I told her cool I look forward tto seeing him fight the other 90 guys who stared too. She didn't respond and I never saw the kid. A few days later she said that I was being rude and giving her attitude so I was gonna get jumped and that day the kid walked up to me and said. You been talkin **** bout my girl? I said nah bro I just looked at her ***. He goes, that's my *** don't look at it again. I said that would be kinda hard and said that hed make it easier for me. Je went to punch me in the eye and I moved out of the way ( I knew a few moves cause I want to be a marine, that's another thing teenagers use no strategy when they fight. What idiots ) and then I grabbed his arm, twisted it back and pinned him against the wall. The chick comes and starts slapping me so I let go of him and then I trll the girl to stop cause I wasn't gonna hit her, then some teacher came, found the kid ready to go at me and the chick slapping me. The guy didn't see me do anything so I acted innocent and then I took it up with the schools SRO and the kid and his girl got suspended.

Don't hide, cause then they'll think that you actually did do something and now your trying to escape them. Tell her that you want to meet her to talk things out. Do it in a public place where there are a lot of people to witness incase things go wrong. Settle thinjgs then and there. Just tell her that yyou don't want trouble and that you didn't do anything. Also don't fight unless someone else starts. Lol

 

[devino246]

Block the @ss holes and act like nothing ever happened. The probably just said "hey, lets screw with the quiet kid".

On the topic of trying to switch schools:
You cant avoid everything your afraid of. Ive tried it, it backfires. Switching schools sucks. I did it last year and still hardly know anyone at my new school, even though I went to middle school with a bunch of kids there. Its like being a freshmen all over again, you dont know where anything is, you know nothing about the school. You end up feeling out of place. (although I am glad i switched cuz the new one is like 10x easier.)

On a side note, wonder why it is that so many high schoolers into mechanical things have so much trouble in school?

 

[fowler]

probs human nature

to boil it right down things that are differant are a threat
they have no idea what we are trying to do
and some of us aint as smart

i got it a little bit at school and my sisters get it for there horse riding