1. Yup, I agree, it's soo much easier to do...most anything, if you can actually find the tools
2. Your standard open ended wrench set can be used as measuring tools
Like if a 1" wrench fits over a piece of pipe (kinda snuggly)
...then, you can be pretty sure that it is a piece of 1" dia. pipe that your "measuring"
3. For an example of frame construction
...& proper "factory" tube joining methods
...take a look at how most bicycle frames, are welded together
They have nice-n-tight notches
...like where the "goose neck" connects
...& up under the seat post
...& even where the crank "tube" connects
4. Gussets are good for strengthening junctions
...but, they shouldn't have to "make up" for a poor designed or sloppy junction
