okay guys i woke up to a msg on facebook from my girlfriends dad tell me to call him.so i did and and he told me a he found a pic that i sent my girlfriend that SHE ASKED FOR of my privtie and he told me that unless i want the cops involed to break up with her and we are not alowed to talk for 6 month & she cant know the reason why i broke up with her. this is killing my heart because we have been togher for over 7 months and i really care about her. and she has sent my plenty of pics of her b4. i understand that we are both 15 but were teenagers were gonna do stupid crap. but all i do is blame is myself. and why was he going threw her phone?
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okay guys i woke up to a msg on facebook from my girlfriends dad tell me to call him.so i did and and he told me a he found a pic that i sent my girlfriend that SHE ASKED FOR of my privtie and he told me that unless i want the cops involed to break up with her and we are not alowed to talk for 6 month & she cant know the reason why i broke up with her. this is killing my heart because we have been togher for over 7 months and i really care about her. and she has sent my plenty of pics of her b4. i understand that we are both 15 but were teenagers were gonna do stupid crap. but all i do is blame is myself. and why was he going threw her phone?
Unfortunately I cannot feel sorry for you. What you guys did is reserved for people who are married. I know I am a prude.....but I live by certain standards.
Sorry man
Sorry man
bighead
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What would the cops do? He is probably breaking more laws than you. What is he doing keeping your pic? If he keeps the pic for any reason it is child porn.
I would find out what would happen with the law if he did call the cops.
Also find out if any crime is commetted by him keeping the photo for blackmale.
I would play his bluff. Tell him you will tell the cops he forced you to take the pic. (do not do it that but you can tell him that)
All in all him finding your pic is bad man. I would tell your girlfriend for sure. Put the pressure on. What is scared to confront her? He is hiding something from you or there is a reason he is not telling her. (why) Does her and the mom over rule the dad? But if you can get busted for what you did then run like hell.
If he keeps your pic for any amount of time then call the cops yourself saying you do not like him having a photo your girlfriend stole from you. I am pretty sure all child porn should be reported. The photo should be destroyed or reported by the dad if he keeps it.
Intimidation of an minor thru pornography is one charge I can think off.
LOL child porn. Amagine the dad and mom are looking at your pic right now. LOL Sorry friend but I find this stuff just halarious. I think you messed up bigtime. And ruined any chance you have with this girls parents. I know you would not be in my house or dating any of my kids. But I would not have did what this dad did though. This is why not confronting your girlfriend raises a few questions. I know I would confront my kids asap. Is your GF dad's little brat and always gets her way?
Thats your pic man. Go get it back.
I would find out what would happen with the law if he did call the cops.
Also find out if any crime is commetted by him keeping the photo for blackmale.
I would play his bluff. Tell him you will tell the cops he forced you to take the pic. (do not do it that but you can tell him that)
All in all him finding your pic is bad man. I would tell your girlfriend for sure. Put the pressure on. What is scared to confront her? He is hiding something from you or there is a reason he is not telling her. (why) Does her and the mom over rule the dad? But if you can get busted for what you did then run like hell.
If he keeps your pic for any amount of time then call the cops yourself saying you do not like him having a photo your girlfriend stole from you. I am pretty sure all child porn should be reported. The photo should be destroyed or reported by the dad if he keeps it.
Intimidation of an minor thru pornography is one charge I can think off.
LOL child porn. Amagine the dad and mom are looking at your pic right now. LOL Sorry friend but I find this stuff just halarious. I think you messed up bigtime. And ruined any chance you have with this girls parents. I know you would not be in my house or dating any of my kids. But I would not have did what this dad did though. This is why not confronting your girlfriend raises a few questions. I know I would confront my kids asap. Is your GF dad's little brat and always gets her way?
Thats your pic man. Go get it back.
thxs bighead i you have gave me hope i fill be finding out what would happen if hes holding the pic as black mail and see whati can do about this. i know im ruiening my chance of having any type of friend ship with her parent but still im goig to try and also he told me not to tell my parent well he doesnt know my parents at all yes there gonna be mad at me & ill get grounded but still they will help me fix my relashonship with her. i also kinda find this halarious. because me thinking this out if i cant get in trouble for me sending the pic because she asked me to then her dad doesnt have anything to hold against me because m parent will already know & he will get introble like you said for having child porn in his position. . thanks again big head for helping me think this out
. thanks again big head for helping me think this out
bighead
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If he is telling you he has a naked photo of you. And telling you not to tell your parents. Maybe just me but something is not right about this picture.
I can just amagine him flipping thru her phone and then seeing your naked pic. LOL.
Did you learn your lesson? Plenty if fish in the sea friend.
I can just amagine him flipping thru her phone and then seeing your naked pic. LOL.
Did you learn your lesson? Plenty if fish in the sea friend.
I still don't see anything in your first post about him blackmailing you. Did he say he is going to keep the pic. That means he has to keep her phone or remove it from the phone
fowler
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look at this from the dads point of veiw
u got some kids privates on his daughters phone of couse he is gonna trip
to be honest i wouldnt call that a normal thing to do (on your behalf
talk to him again
explain yourself
he may have over reacted
he may justify his desision
dont get the cops involved
this is the kinda thing that gets blown out of proportion real quick
if he gets charged of somthing way too quick it will be a great loss just because he wants to protect his daughter
sometimes u gotta accept u ****ed up
or got the hard end of the deal
u got some kids privates on his daughters phone of couse he is gonna trip
to be honest i wouldnt call that a normal thing to do (on your behalf
talk to him again
explain yourself
he may have over reacted
he may justify his desision
dont get the cops involved
this is the kinda thing that gets blown out of proportion real quick
if he gets charged of somthing way too quick it will be a great loss just because he wants to protect his daughter
sometimes u gotta accept u ****ed up
or got the hard end of the deal
sideways
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fowler
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i could say many things but after the age thread i dont think half the people would have any idea what i was saying
B man
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Dude your 15. Let it go. You'll find another girl in no time. Let me tell you this you WON'T marry your high school sweet heart. The chances are extremely slim. Did your parents used to be gf and bf in high school? Point is there will be another girl in no time.
I have let her go I just wanna her to know the truth about this.
Also I know it sound like we were having sex but we wernt we sent thow pic to get us by so we wouldn't have sex. Trust me I don't want to have a kid anytime soon and I don't trust condoms at all lol. But he just msged me & all saying that if I don't want my parents finding out to keep quiet. I understand being mad if I was a father I would be pissed to. I sat my parents down and talked to them they told me to listen to him for now till I talk to the cops & we figure out if i could get in trouble if he calls but he has no proof in the pic she deleted the text & u can't see my face but she saved the pic so no proof it's me but still I don't want them involved. I'm gonna talk to the dad one more time and tell him all I want to do is tell her the truth
Also I know it sound like we were having sex but we wernt we sent thow pic to get us by so we wouldn't have sex. Trust me I don't want to have a kid anytime soon and I don't trust condoms at all lol. But he just msged me & all saying that if I don't want my parents finding out to keep quiet. I understand being mad if I was a father I would be pissed to. I sat my parents down and talked to them they told me to listen to him for now till I talk to the cops & we figure out if i could get in trouble if he calls but he has no proof in the pic she deleted the text & u can't see my face but she saved the pic so no proof it's me but still I don't want them involved. I'm gonna talk to the dad one more time and tell him all I want to do is tell her the truth
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That sucks.Kinda funny though.Reminds me of the Bret Farve d**k picts video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=POyFvDgV2cU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=POyFvDgV2cU
devino246
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This is yet another reason why I haven't dated in high school. Removing school and parents from the equation makes things 10x less complicated.
chirstian youth logic is so lol
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To the very best of my knowledge, there is no law that states that two 15-year-olds cannot send pictures of their naughty bits to each other. It might be stupid (and it is) but not illegal. Learn a lesson from this. It just takes one angry person, and the whole world is looking at your junk. Manipulated by the wrong person, it COULD wreck your life. And I don't mean, I'm 15 and it's "over" wrecked. I mean like REAL blackmail that can really wreck your adult life.
I understand her dad freaking. I just don't agree with the way he's handling it. If I was in your shoes, I would 1)Tell him that you have already told your parents and it is being dealt with on their end, and 2) it is NOT illegal, so drop the crap. 3)Your relationship with her is now fried, so you might just as well tell her what's up (as opposed to sending a pic of what's up LOL) Why? I can get myself into trouble JUST FINE. But it sounds like she was just as much of a participant as you. I DO NOT like taking heat that ISN'T all mine. Credit where credit is due, spit where spit is due.
I truly loved (or so I thought) my high-school sweetheart, Amy. We dated for three years, and really did start to think we'd marry. My wife's name is Melanie. You do the math.
Now- since you've got all this pent up energy, go build something! THAT, you can take pics of!
EDIT- Dang, I wish I only had 15-year-old problems!
I understand her dad freaking. I just don't agree with the way he's handling it. If I was in your shoes, I would 1)Tell him that you have already told your parents and it is being dealt with on their end, and 2) it is NOT illegal, so drop the crap. 3)Your relationship with her is now fried, so you might just as well tell her what's up (as opposed to sending a pic of what's up LOL) Why? I can get myself into trouble JUST FINE. But it sounds like she was just as much of a participant as you. I DO NOT like taking heat that ISN'T all mine. Credit where credit is due, spit where spit is due.
I truly loved (or so I thought) my high-school sweetheart, Amy. We dated for three years, and really did start to think we'd marry. My wife's name is Melanie. You do the math.
Now- since you've got all this pent up energy, go build something! THAT, you can take pics of!
EDIT- Dang, I wish I only had 15-year-old problems!
B.M.800
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How bout 17? Wanna do my stinkin schoolwork for me?
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