Well it still may be my fault, my exhaust is smaller than it should be and runs at an extreme angle. It glows red on freeway trips to work, the theory is that since the header stays red for so long it keeps too much heat to close to the valve resulting in warpage over time?
You see, it's the
seemingly small, unimportant details like this that make the biggest difference & shed the most light on the subject...
You are
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT! If the exhaust is glowing red, that means the heat is not escaping away from the engine, which transfers
back towards the head & the smallest, most exposed parts are effected first, in this case, the valve stem &/or guide...
This also means that the engine was not running at its full potential as the exhaust gasses were not escaping from the engine, creating "back pressure" or a "non scavenging" effect (be prepared, that sentence just may have opened a
huge can of worms...)
I see one of two possible scenarios:
1. The heat from the exhaust heated the area around the valve guide (being aluminium, it's softer than the steel valve) which meant the valve was no longer travelling true & made contact with the piston; that contact then bent the valve & transferred through to the conrod...
2. As the valve guide is part of a larger amount of material, the heat could be transferred & dispersed through the entire head & block, leaving the valve stem vulnerable to the heat, which caused it to soften & bend & make contact with the piston; that contact then transferred through to the conrod...