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[BirdFanatic]

Sorry to hear that. Have been through it twice myself. Second time was like you guys just 6 weeks. The first was tougher 4 or 5 months, that was tough, would have been the first kid too.
Now I know we don't talk about religion here but ...too bad. I personally believe someday when I get to Heaven I will meet both of these children. Please know and tell your girl my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time

The nurse told her she had a 1 inch by one inch ovarian cyst on her left side and it cause the baby to be rejected .So they put her on the shot to get rid of the cyst .The thing that i told her was just what you said i told her to be glad it happened now and not 6 months down the line because the longer the harder it gets and the worse you feel .

 

[landuse]

I am sorry to hear that Cam. I hope you too are OK.

 

[crazykart]

Im really sorry to hear that my brother.

All throughout my wifes pregnancy with my son we were on constant aleart that she might lose him. She had multiple cysts on one of her overies. They finally took him out about 6 weeks early and had to remove that ovary too. Scared the crap out if me every day, especially since she had already lost so many, and we had been trying for so long.
its hard to deal with, it is, but just remember that its 10x harder on her, even if she doesnt show it. Just be there for her, and be loving and supportive.

 

[Desertduler]

I am sorry for both of your loss, losing a child at any age is the most difficult thing to deal with for any parent.

 

[OzFab]

Sorry for your loss, Cam; please send our condolences to your GF...

I, too, have been through this situation; the best thing anyone said to me at the time was "everything happens for a reason"; case in point, did she know she had an ovarian cyst previously? those can be deadly