Explain like you’re 5? Kid, don’t play with wires and electricity. Ask a parent for help.
A starter is grounded to engine. Make sure you run a heavy gauge wire (e.g. 10 ga) from negative battery terminal to frame or even better, engine mounting bolt.
A starter needs two (+) connections from the battery.
1) heavy (10ga) direct from battery.
2) light (16?ga) switched from battery.
The heavy + uses a bolt on the starter
The light + uses a spade connector on the starter
The reason why you need two + connections from battery is tgat the heavy + powers the starter but is isolated. The light + uses a solenoid to make an internal connection to the heavy +.
You can put a key ignition switch, momentary push button, whatever you want between the light + spade and the battery + terminal